Thank you for doing what you are doing.
In Monett Missouri, in the old IOOF cemetery, there is a grave. On the stone it reads RAY LEON JAQUES" with his birth and death dates.
It is the grave of my great uncle.
It is empty.
RaY L Jaques lied about his age to get into the Navy during WW II because he was so eager to get over there and serve. My only memory of Ray is the pictures of him that hung on my great frandparents' wall. The bright young man smiling, resplendant in his fresh, creased Navy uniform, with the flag behind him. That and the Purple Heart, which I still have.
Ray was a crewmember on the USS Lexington. During the Battle of the Coral Sea, Mya 7-8 1941 the "Lady Lex" was hit by enemy torpedoes. A fire started on the ship, was put out, and then an explosion hit, causing further fire and crippling the carrier. Then a wave of massive explosions and fires. The order to abandon ship came and the surviving crewmembers were taken off safely.
Ray was not among them. From what we were told, he had been in the radio room when the second explosion hit.
Here is where fact and legend separate and walk two different paths. Some say that there were living crewmembers left aboard the Lex because they could NOT be gotten off the ship. Other accounts say that everyone who could be gotten off, were.
I know that the latter detail is correct. The US was forced to scuttle the Gray Lady to keep her from falling into the hands of the Japanese. Lexington would have been and incredible war prize.
Legend has it that the day was darkening into night when the commander of one of the Phelps ship radioed the Lexington to tell them "Boys... I hate like H--- to do this... but we're gonna have to scuttle you. We can't wait any longer, the Japanese fleet is on top of us!"
A voice came back amid the static "Well, Cap'n... make it a good one! We got one heck of a card game going on here and I'm ahead!"
This is what the Jaques family was told by a survivor who visited them. We now know that it is not what happened. ... ?...
They sent two torpedoes into the Lexington and she began to list, and then to sink. She went clean.
In the newspapers, there was a brief mention of "The Wasp" having been sunk on the Coral Sea. News was patchy and garbled in order to keep the Japanese from knowing what a huge prize they had damaged. It was felt also that morale in the States would be dampened by knowing that one of the greatest ships then afloat had been sunk.
They held services for the fallen. I have, today, Presidential citations from that time, and also one from Lyndon B. Johnson on the 25th anniversary of the sinking. I have the newspaper clippings and I have Uncle Ray's Purple Heart and service medals. I've seen the gravestone. but the entire family knows. It's empty. They could not rescue the bodies of those lost.
Footage of the battle
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iipW_576Ea0
So... from a family member of a casualty of World War II ...
THANK YOU.
SageGrouse