OK, so at least a step forward that even warrants taking a picture!
I was researching online and found a thread detailing using a plastic bottle as what I would call a "poor mans tumbler", just using a plastic bottle. Maybe even worked a few arm muscles to get me ready for detecting this spring!
The threads I saw recommended using a wide mouth plastic bottle such as an orange juice bottle. All I have right now is a water bottle, but that worked fine for dimes (smaller hole size like a 20 oz soda bottle).
The threads also discussed vinegar and salt, so decided to try that again (am learning what I have read is true, not the best for clad, probably OK for pennies, I am considering my pennies "done" this year, good enough).
So I worked a fist full of dimes for awhile and was getting them much better looking this way than just soaking. I realized after a good 10 minutes of shaking that I also have some aquarium gravel around the house, so added that to the mix and that also made a big difference. The one thread stressed the importance of rinsing the coins, so I flushed the vinegar solution out a lot and shook the coin and gravel mixture, rinsed again and did this a few times, then decided to add a little dish soap and shake it a while longer and they started to look really pretty decent, although still a goldish stain to them, but decided I'd had enough and drained everything out and kept the gravel to reuse. I dried off the dimes I cleaned and set in a pile and decided I would finish the dimes I hadn't cleaned yet.
This time I decided the vinegar had to go and instead used the gravel and some of the chemical I had bought for $1 called The Works, which sound like it does about the same job as CLR or LimeAway. So put the remaining dimes in the bottle (gravel was already in the bottle) and put in The Works to cover, also added a bit of water, and started shaking, again a good 10 minutes or so, drained the now greenish-water off and I could see they were getting cleaner without the goldish tint. Experimented with a few other handy items i had in our laundryroom cupboard. One thing I thought of was a pumice hand cleaner (pasty sort of goop), squeezed a bit of that in there along with some dish soap and did that for awhile too, not sure if it helped all that much, probably the extra water and gravel time helped more than anything. Rinsed that all out (some of the pumice seemed to remain though) and then noticed a cardboard container of Borax, also a hand cleaner, decided to see if that would help, and again i am doubtful if anything was accomplished other than more time spent shaking might have helped.
At that point I just went through a little more dishsoap and water rinse, I could tell many of the dimes looked good and others I think may have been affected by the previous attempts at soaking I had made (bad copper stains i think caused by reaction of the inner copper clad material with the vinegar or other chemicals i had tried) and are still stained in varying degrees. So anyways i rinsed the bottle well and again dumped the entire contents out and dried the dimes off and have the gravel drying (man is the inside of that bottle getting hazy!).
Posting pics of the results, the left side is the first group which I used salt and vinegar to start with, and the right side is the last group starting with The Works and also a few other things used as an experiment.