Well, there will always be scams and scammers. *shrug* BUT there will also, always be those who are down on their luck also.
Some 25 years ago, when I lived in Hollywood, I was walking my dog, on a cold winter day, and there was a fellow, huddled on the ground, trying to sleep in a vacant field. The day was *cold* and he was shivering. I returned home, found a warm blanket, and carried it back out to him. He was asleep, so I gently laid the thick cover over him. He woke up cursing. He shook his fist at me, called me several vile names and told me to leave him alone.
I did so. Rather hastily I might add. But I NEVER regretted my action. Some time later, I saw him at a bus stop, wrapped in the blanket. He never thanked me. *shrug* So what? He was warm and that is what I wanted. Even today, broke as I am, I *will* give whatever I have in my purse, to a homeless person. ALWAYS.
"But he might use it for drugs!" I hear. Again, *shrug* I have no control over the actions of another. I DO have control over my OWN actions. I will *always* do my best to err on the side of generosity, forgiveness, charity, kindness. Because, you see, I don't control the homeless, the poor, the scammers, the needy, the criminal, etc... I control *me*.
I've been taken advantage of, yes. But I have ALSO been in the position of truly helping. I assisted a friend in obtaining her Social Security Disability. Since then she has been very unkind to me, BUT... I helped her stay in her home! Would I do it again, knowing that she would turn on me? YES! Because I KNOW that I did the *right thing*. Her life is better because of my actions. THAT is my payment.
I do not need gratitude for my actions. It's nice, to be sure! I LOVE it when people are appreciative... but that's NOT why I do it. Day by day, every day, week, year, we ALL make decisions. Litle ones. Should I give a dollar to this guy? Should I let that lady in front of me in line? Should I slow down and let that car in ahead of me? Should I hold the door for that mother with the stroller? Little decisions. Tiny seemingly insignificant ones. But if you try to make all the small decisions for good... the larger ones take care of themselves.
Have I led a good life? I don't know. And I don't worry about it. I handle what I *can* handle and leave the rest up to God. He knows if I held that door because all I wanted was the lady to turn around and say "Thank you." or if I just held it because I wanted to make her day 15 seconds easier. "When giving alms, let not your right hand know what your left hand doeth but give in secret and your Father, who sees all, will reward you, openly."... or something like that.
Never forget... EVERYTHING counts! Everything.
SageGrouse