jamflicker where are you finding all this gold and silver they speak of? you wanna share your location with a fellow Californian ?
Good Luck. I already tried that one.
Laxsaltman and ale11, can I give you each a word-to-the-wise ? You can probably imagine that expert billiard players like to play the game with like-skilled billiard players. And Arnold Palmer probably preferred to play golf with like-skilled golfers. And so forth, and so on, throughout hobbies and sports: Persons who fought and clawed their way to be top-of-their-game tend to want to spend their time hunting with those that can reciprocate with the same caliber good spots. And who can "pace" them (the challenge of competition) that is so fun to hunting with buddies. From someone who's going to "pace" them.
That's not to say that someone who's an ace will *never* hunt with someone who's just starting. Or that they'll never give you the time of day. Just saying ... put yourself in THEIR shoes.
I used to get , and accept, requests all the time to help people out, take them to my spots, etc.... And since I love md'ing so much (you don't have to twist my arm to get me out), I would always oblige. But I began to see how it was always ME doing the research and legwork. While these friends would sit around waiting for me to take them to the next "latest greatest" spot. I noticed they weren't doing too much to research and find new spots for us.
Or I'd notice that after a few hunts (where lots of my time and energy was burned trying to get them shown the ropes) that the machine would be in the closet, and they'd lost interest. Huh ? Or they might find something spectacular at one of my sites, but have little respect for how rare and precious it was.
So I developed a calloused attitude over the years: People see show & tell posts with seateds, gold coins, reales, etc.... Then if someone wishes for me to take them to a spot where a reale or seateds, etc... are possible, I make them the following deal: You show me a spot that has this potential, then yes, I'll take you to my spot. NOT just something they see in a history book (leaving me the rest of the time and energy to reconn, try, finish researching etc....), but actual productive site.
I know this sounds circular and un-fair. Ie.: how are you ever supposed to "trade sites" and "arrive in skill", if no one's ever shown you the ropes.... TO BEGIN WITH ??
I was in the same boat 25+ yrs. ago. A guy about an hour from me was rumored to have scores of reales, and about 4 or 5 gold coins. I bumped into him from time to time. Each time suggesting "we ought to get together sometime" or "where are you hunting?" and "how do you do it?" etc... But each time he only gave lip service. He only ever hunted with the same group of 3 or 4 like-skilled hunters, and this elitist bunch never really hunted with anyone else outside their "circle". It sort of p*ssed me off.
Then in the early 1990s, I had done my own research and found a virgin stage stop in another county nearby. It gave up some seateds and an 1880s $20 gold. A few weeks later, I bumped into this elitist hunter again on the beach. In casual chit-chat (which was normally at an arm's length with this guy) I casually mentioned I'd just found a $20, plus this and that. All of the sudden he stopped to listen. And for the first time, he began to talk on a deeper level. He agreed to go along with me on a next trip to my new site.
Eventually we became good detecting buddies, and I THEN learned all his sites, secrets, etc.....
See how that works ? There's got to be some reciprocation. Otherwise it will get dull as a "one-way-street" to those who have paid-their-dues.