metaladdict
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She has Two year cycles. Right now shes manic and spending our cash and credit cards to the max....Sooo I am making the bank account only in my name.Any one else have this issue? I will accept your prayers.
Get used to it.....or not.She has Two year cycles. Right now shes manic and spending our cash and credit cards to the max....Sooo I am making the bank account only in my name.Any one else have this issue? I will accept your prayers.
Get used to it.....or not.
For 12 years I got threatened once or twice a year with divorce (first of the year was consistent, the second one in July didn't always happen) until I finally got tired of the emotional yo-yo and told her to go for it.
Good luck!
I built my home about the same time I married, and paid off my six-figure mortgage and $30k+ of my wife’s debt that she brought into the marriage, worked my tail off and was debt-free in ten years time.
Three years ago I discovered she had another debt load of over six-figures
Had to refinance house, tried to work with her on her debt (several cards in the 26% interest rate), etc, she served me divorce papers and I started drinking for awhile.
We’ve since worked things out and it’s been a bumpy ride.
Hate to say it but if I were single I’d be very well off.
Good luck!
Thanks G.S. If I get up your way, I will contact you.Hey Metal. You have my prayers and thoughts. If your ever over this way it’d be good to chat. Hang in there and do what you can, but take care of you too.
Thanks, Im generally a very positive guy.Sorry to hear that, and prayers for both of you as it has got to be tough on both you and her and I commend your commitment to stand by her thru this !
Thanks Gkl.
It helps a lot if the person realizes they have a problem and wants help. It was a very long time ago but I know a person who had that same basic problem and prayer and faith really did help, that person still no longer has that problem even after all these years so please stay encouraged !
Thanks.Good luck!
I just changed our checking to soley under my name, no more worries.Yeah my ex wife used to always accuse me of fooling around because i was working all the time. She would spend thousands on clothes, shoes. dolls, etc. House looked like a hoarder house with new tags still on everything. I think a friend of mine who works at a flea market paid for a new house and car with the stuff i had to chunk out to be able to move around. Also had to clear out a 10x20 storage unit full to the ceiling. If i was still with her i would be living under a tree somewhere. Still have PTSD from that krap.
Be sure and keep check on the junk mail for credit cards that come. Knew someone whose wife filled some out in his name. He found out the hard way he was on the hook for 8 grand he didn't spend. The court didn't careI just changed our checking to soley under my name, no more worries.
She has Two year cycles. Right now shes manic and spending our cash and credit cards to the max....Sooo I am making the bank account only in my name.Any one else have this issue? I will accept your prayers.
She is in the manic stage... my brother is Bipolar Manic Depressive... know what you are going through... its a life long deal...
Be sure and keep check on the junk mail for credit cards that come. Knew someone whose wife filled some out in his name. He found out the hard way he was on the hook for 8 grand he didn't spend. The court didn't care
Same here with my daughter. It is not easy for them or their loved ones. I have always been a fixer but some things we can not fix.She is in the manic stage... my brother is Bipolar Manic Depressive... know what you are going through... its a life long deal...
I have too many things to say..
Still trying to get right myself from similar..
CPTSD
Good luck,
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